Our primitive
brain is still concerned with only one thing – our survival. And survival today, for those of us
lucky enough to live in relative economic prosperity means social
survival. We depend on the society
in which we live. This means that
the threats and opportunities to our survival depend upon our relationships and
our ability to navigate complex and subtle rules for success. If we don’t succeed the penalty is
marginalization or exclusion from society, which equates to a threat to our
very existence.
Our primitive
brain struggles to cope with this complexity and yet is forever on guard. Most of us experience this as a
constant state of anxiety. Our
executive brain concerns itself for the most part with our relationships and
our status, while our primitive brain worries.
The role of
marketing has made a major contribution to this state of anxiety by portraying
a vision of what it is to be successful in society, by associating this
blissful state with the acquisition of wealth, goods and services that are
needed to achieve a level of status that will mitigate the threat of exclusion.
What if marketing
turned on its head and took on responsibility for alleviating the anxiety it has helped to create in
people’s lives?
What if marketing
helped people to feel validated and supported? What if products were developed with genuine compassion for
their customers and their anxiety filled lives? What if companies and brands leveled with consumers and
spoke to them honestly? What if
companies held their hands up and admitted their failings giving customers
permission to be flawed too?
What then?